so i threw up in my mouth a little.

Hi internet,

I thought I had seen it all with regard to men seeking sex, but this one takes the cake.

•  Mar 28
  
  1:27 PM Igor: hi, Mela
  
  how are you?

Apr 13


to me

10:44 AM Igor: Mela?

 Igor E 



9:51 AM (13 minutes ago)


to me

9:38 AM Igor: Hi, Mela

9:39 AM me: hi

Igor: how's everything?

Mela, I'm leaving NY soon... could we meet before I go?

me: nope

we cannot meet

9:40 AM Igor: why? ;(

me: because you are a selfish asshole who used me for sex, reason number one

number two is that i'm engaged

number three is that i don't live in nyc and haven't since march

9:41 AM Igor: Where do you live now? I thought you were on far Rockaway?...

me: what the fuck

do you not read?

i clearly don't have a good opinion of you.

9:42 AM Igor: Too bad... I was thinking highly of you... I was very upset about that mass e-mail some guy sent about you trying to have sex with him... I think you remember.

I never used you.

I enjoyed seeing you...

9:43 AM me: uh,, yes you did

we had a nice time and then you didn't get in touch

and if you remember, i told you i didn't want to meet up if it was a one time thing

and you proved that you lied

Igor: I didn't plan it as a one night thing... I was very excited about seeing you after all that time...

9:44 AM I was busy at the hospital and then that e-mail... I was vbery upset

me: uh huh

well that email came a long time after we met up

that has no relation to your choice not to contact me.

Igor: No, Mela, that is not true... I was so upset.

9:45 AM Congrats on engagement

me: yes it is true

Igor: So where do you live now? still queens?

me: we met up in june, that email i sent in november

Igor: i'd love to see you before i leave

me:ok so wait, you congratulate me on my engagement and then you want to see me?

9:46 AM Igor: Yes, Mela

me: is this because you are russian? is it russian culture to be a gigantic asshole

9:47 AM you have no respect for me or for my fiancee, and you only care about yourself

and that's disgusting.

9:48 AM Igor: i respect you a lot. we can meet without sex. I would just love to see you before i go...

i can just massage your body and kiss you, no sex

me: you are fucking disgusting.

enjoy your trip, wherever you are going, goodbye

Igor: Mela, I want you

don't leave me like that...

I am leaving NY fopr good

9:51 AM i have to go now... I felt some connection when we met...

please, e-mail me.

We must see each otehr.

kiss you!